As BDSM gains popularity with the erotica of FiftyShades of Grey, many readers are asking themselves, "Just what is BDSM?" BDSMis an acronym. The B stands for bondage; the D can stand for discipline,domination, dominant or dominance; the S can stand for sadism, submission,slave, or submissive; and the M stands for masochism or master. Like therelationship in Fifty Shades of Grey, the most popular BDSM relationship is onebetween a dominant and a submissive whereas the pleasure of the submissive isderived from serving the desires of the dominant and submitting to the dominantwhile the pleasure of the dominant pleasure is found in the gift of submission.Submission craves dominance and dominance craves submission. This type of BDSMis also commonly referred to a power exchange - the submissive or slave withcommunicated limits relinquishes control to the dominant. BDSM power exchangeliaisons will sometimes also include bondage. Bondage is the restriction ofmovement by ropes, toys, straps. Discipline is a BDSM term which is used todescribe consensual actions the dominant or Master will employ when thesubmissive does not fully submit. BDSM Discipline can involve spanking and thesubmissive receive their spanking by the hand of their Master's hand or asexual toy. A male dominant is frequently referred to as an alpha male and ifthere is another male involved, the alpha male will always the dominant. TheBDSM submissive is often called slave or slut and neither slut nor slave arederogatory terms in BDSM. BDSM also includes relationships masochists andsadists, but they are rarer forms of BDSM. With Fifty Shades of Grey BDSMerotica in the main stream I, a dedicated BDSM author, urge you to read aboutall the different nuances of BDSM that interest you and I hope you enjoy eachof them.. Now on to the naughty, fun particulars in thisBDSM title. Revised version of 3 Hole SlutExcerpt:Oh, wow. I woke up this morning, still tied to the headboard, a big plug up my ass, and you in the shower. What a night last night was. Gosh, I am so sore. It all started out so innocently but it certainly didn't stay that way... I was in the kitchen, getting stuff ready for the barbeque. Andrew and Jeff were coming over for dinner, both of their wives were out of town, and we thought it would be nice to for them to have a home-cooked dinner. You came in from starting the grill, and rubbed my ass, making sure I didn't have undies on. You allow me to wear clothes when we have company, but no undies. Of course, I didn't have them on. You asked me to the bedroom, and said you had something for me. You pulled out a box which came in the mail today with a new butt plug inside, a much bigger one. You lubed my up and pushed it in. It was big, not so big it hurt, but felt really, really full. You slapped my ass a few times, and told me it was to stay in, you didn't want me offering my ass to these guys. You told me there were more goodies in the box and soon enough I would find out what. Dinner progressed great, the steaks were perfect, salad was great and the corn was sweet. We were sitting outside, enjoying the beautiful night. The guys were admiring all the work we had done on the yard, and how much they enjoyed the fish pond. We were discussing the fish, and Andrew innocently said he couldn't believe how many water lilies were blooming. I hope he doesn't know how significant a word lily is in our household. Not only is it my middle name, which I hate, but it is also my command for me to assume my position for Master, on hands and knees, ass in air towards you, always.
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