In today's stagnant economy, more couples planning to divorce are choosing to represent themselves instead of paying thousands of dollars to asset draining attorneys. This chapbook offers practical advice that will save you an enormous amount of money should you decide to proceed with a Do-it-yourself divorce. The facts and perspectives are presented from the author's point of view as someone who has dealt extensively with the legal system and Family Courts and learned the hard way about the realities involved that no lawyer will tell you freely. Complete with links and references to invaluable sources.